Nothing is more infuriating and heartbreaking than when you constantly walk miles for someone, only for them to not even give you an inch back.
There are times where you need to put others first. Friends and family play a big part in this.
Sometimes you need to be selfish and put yourself first in certain situations. That’s okay! As long as it’s not all the time…
There are times where you need to put yourself first. Health, being a main reason. You need to look out for yourself.
I’ll be honest, I find it difficult to be selfish. I try my best to help those who come to me for help. I want to be there for them. I find it difficult to say no. This is my problem. I’ve recently learnt how people will learn this trait about you very quickly, and they are very fast to abuse this.
When you have given nothing. Ask for nothing.
I’m trying my hardest to ‘toughen’ up, and learn to put my foot down, but it’s still baby steps.